A New Jersey man was acquitted Friday of the 2010 murder of transgender lingerie model Victoria Carmen White.
A jury in Essex County, N.J., found Alrashim Chambers, 25, of Newark, not guilty of murder, bias intimidation, and two weapons charges, New Jersey’s Star-Ledger newspaper reports. Chambers, who took the stand in his own defense, denied having anything to do with the killing and painted another man, Marquise Foster, who took a plea deal in exchange for testimony against Chambers, as the perpetrator.
White, 28, was shot to death September 12, 2010, in her cousin’s apartment in Maplewood, N.J. She had met Chambers at a bar earlier that evening, and he had gone to the apartment with her. Also present were Foster and two women, including the cousin. But the women were in another room at the time of the shooting and did not directly witness it. The women said they heard someone yell “You a dude?” and heard gunshots, but they could not identify the speaker or the shooter.
Foster had testified that Chambers had been hugging and kissing White and became enraged when he suspected she was transgender, then shot her. But Chambers said he was not in the apartment when White was shot, having stepped out and been unable to return because a door in the vestibule was locked. He said he saw Foster come running out, but Foster didn’t tell him what had happened. Chambers also said he didn’t know White had been killed until he saw news reports two months later that described him and Foster as suspects. Both men turned themselves in to authorities shortly thereafter. The gun used in the killing was never found.
Prosecutor Eileen O’Connor said White’s gender identity provided the only motive for her killing, yet the bias intimidation charge did not figure significantly in the trial, the Star-Ledger reports. White had undergone gender-reassignment surgery 10 years earlier.
O’Connor told the paper that she and White’s family were disappointed in the verdict, “but we put forth all the evidence in the case and did the best we could under the circumstances.”
(By Trudy Ring, The Advocate)
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Pick-up lines for feminists
by Lesley Kartali
making the move
at the bar
the club
the pro-choice rally
or the conference
on women’s rights
in the 21st century
is no easy task
for feminists
young and old.
how do you
subtly ask for digits
while still making it
perfectly clear
that you are fine
being alone
and are certainly
not buying into the idea
that women are worthless
without a significant other?
just remember to smile.
or not.
(depending on if you
feel like it)
and try some
of these lines
on for size:
if i could rearrange
the alphabet
i would put u and i
together
and then we could
work on trying
to think outside
of this male dominated
language.
your paradigm or mine?
you’re so sweet
you put hersheys
out of business.
so sweet
you can bring down
all those
bastard big businesses.
somebody better call
god/allah/buddah/
assorted goddesses/etc.
because he/she/gender neutral being
are missing an
angel/messiah/messenger.
*if atheist this line may not work
did it hurt?
when you fell
from the top
of the hierarchy
when society
identified you
as a woman?
pinch me.
with consent of course.
you are so
third wave
i must be dreaming.
where have you been
all my life?
hopefully fighting
against oppressive
patriarchal systems.
your feet must be tired.
because you have been
running through my
mind and struggling
against the repressive
gender roles
that we have been
socialized into
all day.
if the personal is political
then our getting together
has the potential
to subvert the patriarchy.
what’s your sign?
radical? liberal?
socialist? cultural?
eco?
if these lines fail
don’t worry.
it’s probably just
because our
fascist media
has embedded
said pick-up line
receiver
with the idea
that you are a
crazy
scary
man-hating
castrating
bitch.
just keep telling yourself.
if they haven’t
started questioning
what society
tells them yet.
then maybe
they are not
the one
for you.
I’m not even going to tell you the catcalls I received in Manhattan when I lived there. It’s a shitty thing. If you are a lady chances are you know what it’s like to walk down the street and feel afraid of every dude you see thinking “is that guy on the corner going to say some shit to me? Please dude, do not say anything to meeee.” Anyway if you don’t know what it’s like to be harassed whenever you leave the house, here is an article where women talk about that: http://rookiemag.com/2012/05/it-happens-all-the-time/
Links
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Trans*:
- http://www.transhousingnetwork.com/
- http://genderedintelligence.tumblr.com
- http://t-r-a-n-s.tumblr.com/
- http://fuckyeahtranspride.tumblr.com/
- http://requiressomeassembly.tumblr.com/
- http://transclothesexchange.tumblr.com
- http://transpoc.tumblr.com/
- http://transpride.tumblr.com/
AMAB/ Transfeminine/MTF
- http://tuckingandotherskills.tumblr.com
- http://fuckyeahcutetranschicks.tumblr.com/
- http://transcatharsis.tumblr.com/
- http://mtfbutches.tumblr.com/
- http://fuckyeahmtfs.tumblr.com/
- http://mtfconfessions.tumblr.com/
AFAB/ Transmasculine/FTM
- http://artoftransliness.tumblr.com/
- http://fuckyeahftmsofcolor.tumblr.com/
- http://tumblr.transguys.com/
- http://fuckyeahftms.tumblr.com/
- http://youknowyouretrans.tumblr.com/
- http://theftm.tumblr.com/
Trans* Femme
Gender Variant/Non-Binary
Genderqueer/Genderfuck/Genderfluid
- http://genderqueer.tumblr.com/
- http://genderqueerid.com/
- http://fatgqs.tumblr.com/
- http://gender-queer.tumblr.com/
- http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/
- http://genderfuck.tumblr.com/
- http://fuckyeahgenderqueers.tumblr.com/
- http://genderfluidity.tumblr.com/
Neutrois/ Agender / Androgyny
- http://neutrois.tumblr.com/
- http://agender-earthworm.tumblr.com
- http://fyandrogyny.tumblr.com/
- http://practicalandrogyny.tumblr.com/
LGBTQ/ Queer (General)
- http://lgbtqadvice.tumblr.com/
- http://www.queerbois.com/
- http://queerwatch.tumblr.com/
- http://queersecrets.tumblr.com/
- http://everyoneisgay.com/
- http://lgbtqconnections.tumblr.com/
- http://blackgayproblems.tumblr.com/
Lesbian
- http://fuckyeahlesbiancouples.tumblr.com/
- http://dailylesbiandose.tumblr.com/
- http://girlswholikegirls.tumblr.com/
- http://ilovelipsticklesbians.tumblr.com/
- http://fuckyeahasiandykes.tumblr.com/
- http://butch-in-progress.tumblr.com/
- http://onlylivinglesbian.tumblr.com/
- http://lesbihonest.tumblr.com/
GayBisexualPansexual
- http://pansexualpride.tumblr.com/
- http://pansexualftw.tumblr.com/
- http://fuckyeahpansexuals.tumblr.com/
- http://pansexualparty.tumblr.com/
- http://fuckyeahpanproblems.tumblr.com/
FemmeSex Education
- http://fuckyeahsexeducation.tumblr.com/
- http://sexreeducated.tumblr.com/
- http://thesexuneducated.tumblr.com
- http://positiveconnotation.tumblr.com/
- http://sexetc.tumblr.com/
- http://consensual.tumblr.com/
- http://fuckthedisabled.tumblr.com
- http://safersexuality.tumblr.com/
Other
Have any sites that we should know about?
~Maddy
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Thank you so much for putting this together!
Marvel Comics makes history with a gay X-Men marriage.
Marvel Comics’ Astonishing X-Men is set to experience a new sound effect on top of its booms, whams, and sknits: the bong of wedding bells. Specifically, it’s the wedding bells of Marvel’s first gay marriage between longtime X-Man Northstar and his civilian boyfriend, Kyle. After pairing up the couple in 2009, Marvel is officially tying their knot in June’s Astonishing X-Men #51.
(x)more productive than lusting after Iceman!





