The real horror here is that Boys Don’t Cry was based on a true story. Brandon Teena was a real person, who was really brutally raped and killed. The scene that McFarlane is making a sexualized joke out of really happened to a real human being who really died. Because according to McFarlane, breasts exist for men’s amusement, and the total violation and murder of people with breasts is just a big joke because the bodies of women and FAAB people are just hilarious.

When McFarlane reduces Swank’s amazingly powerful performance down to a punchline about her body, he’s doing more than making light of her talent. He’s literally inviting people to laugh at rape and murder. He’s construing breasts as existing for men’s pleasure, whether sexual pleasure or just to make fun of, all the time—even when they belong to people, like Brandon Teena in Boys Don’t Cry, who identify as men. Even when they are exposed as part of a badly injured body, like Charlize Theron in Monster—another film based on a true story. Even when they symbolize the racist sexualization of black women by white men, like Halle Berry in Monster’s Ball. Even when they’re visible during a violent gang rape, as passerby cheer the attackers on, like Jodie Foster in The Accused, once again based on a real-life attack. Even when, like Scarlet Johansson, another target of the boob song, personal nude photographs of them were leaked without consent.
morecoffee:

pynapel:

aboutmaleprivilege:

Male privilege is the sexualization of Breast Cancer awareness.

THIS
it reminds me of what Randall Munroe said:
“The frustrating thing about the “Save the Boobies” campaign and similar things (like the “Booberday” meme going around G+) is that they get it exactly backward. Often, the point of breast cancer treatment is to destroy some or all of the boobies in order to save the woman.
Saying that we should work to cure this disease because it threatens breasts is really upsetting. For starters, it suggests that women are worth saving because they’re attached to breasts, rather than the other way around. But worse, it tells any woman who’s had a mastectomy to try to save her life that she’s lost the thing that made people care about her survival. What a punch in the stomach.”

Perfect analysis is perfect.

morecoffee:

pynapel:

aboutmaleprivilege:

Male privilege is the sexualization of Breast Cancer awareness.

THIS

it reminds me of what Randall Munroe said:

“The frustrating thing about the “Save the Boobies” campaign and similar things (like the “Booberday” meme going around G+) is that they get it exactly backward. Often, the point of breast cancer treatment is to destroy some or all of the boobies in order to save the woman.

Saying that we should work to cure this disease because it threatens breasts is really upsetting. For starters, it suggests that women are worth saving because they’re attached to breasts, rather than the other way around. But worse, it tells any woman who’s had a mastectomy to try to save her life that she’s lost the thing that made people care about her survival. What a punch in the stomach.”

Perfect analysis is perfect.

The trouble with these cleavage-ogling breast cancer campaigns is that, like most advertising, they place a disproportionate emphasis on straight male sexual desire and reduce a woman’s value to a body part. It seems particularly crass that women’s health funding should depend on the same sort of eye-candy marketing that sells beer, chicken wings, and Axe cologne.

Happy Sunday everyone! Here’s this week’s topic announcement:

THIS WEEK: Breast Cancer Awareness and Pinkwashing

- Seen any recent examples of companies exploiting “Breast Cancer Awareness Month” to sell pink crap? Or alternatively a great campaign that actually does promote awareness or raise funds for research or patient support. Reblog to let us know!

NEXT WEEK: Sexism in Halloween Costumes

- Expect rage over the limited choice of “Sexy Everything” costumes for women, sexualisation of young girls, slut shaming, prude shaming and costume based racism.

THE WEEK AFTER: It’s our one year anniversary!

- On 7th November 2011 Holly-Rae put up our first ever video. It’s been an AMAZING first year so we’ll probably be looking back over that and maybe re-introducing ourselves to everyone who’s joined us more recently.

As ever if you’d like to make a guest video on these or any other topic then please click here for more info how and let us know!

- Becca x

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BOOBIES! Body Ownership and Slut Shaming - [Guest Vlog]

[TRIGGER WARNING - slut shaming]

One more video for today’s discussion - Kate discusses why a woman’s body is her own and what she does with it is her own choice.

More Guest Videos: http://bit.ly/OaTZKx
Videos about slut shaming: http://bit.ly/S04hRE
Videos about topless modelling: http://bit.ly/VzUWBS

This Dame:

YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/user/CocoCantWrite
Tumblr: http://thenext15seconds.tumblr.com

Something you’d like to talk about? Want to guest vlog for Those Pesky Dames? Click to find out how: http://thosepeskydames.tumblr.com/guest-videos

An important article to add to the No More Page 3 campaign debate following Holly-Rae and Subi’s videos, from the founder of The Everyday Sexism Project.

It’s entirely possible to critique #nomorepage3 and still generally support it, but vice versa any campaign we do support needs critical analysis if we want to make sure our feminism is intersectional.

The article also notes, in relation to Holly-Rae’s video, the offensive stereotypes involved in the argument that the men who read The Sun are, “from a ‘different’ demographic, concerned solely with basic needs like housing and putting food on the table; too busy with ‘real’ concerns to have the time to object to a little sexist sexual objectification with their breakfast.”

What do you think followers?

The Boobs Are Not The Problem

[Trigger warning for talk of rape and victim blaming]
[Also vaguely NSFW - boobs]

Have another video about the #NoMorePage3 campaign from Subi - YAY SUNDAY VIDEO PARTY WOOO!!

This Dame:

Tumblr - http://peskyangryslut.tumblr.com
Twitter - http://www.twitter.com/ThatPeskySubi

Something you’d like to talk about? Want to guest vlog for Those Pesky Dames? Click to find out how: http://thosepeskydames.tumblr.com/guest-videos

Struggling to coalesce my thoughts on this week’s topic, so for now have this spoken word video about the #NoMorePage3 campaign.

Would really love to hear your thoughts on this - Becca x

Geeks, freaks and Special Snowflakes

(WARNING - may contain boobs, slightly nsfw) Subi rambles a bit clueslessly about sexism in geek culture and how girls have to prove they’re “real” geeks. With a special appearance from some friendly boobs, to vaguely illustrate a point. (Don’t blame me, I can’t control my friends’ bosom) I’d love to hear your thoughts on geek culture and the phenomena of “gamer gurls” and Special Snowflakes.

This Dame: http://uswhoresdontneedyou.tumblr.com

soapboxpixie:

I keep seeing this picture. 
I keep seeing it.
I don’t think my friends understand how much I let slide on Facebook.But for some reason everyone has been sharing this picture, and it is driving me insane because STOP TELLING ME WHAT TO DO WITH MY BOOBS.
If someone wants to wear a mega push up bra with a see through shirt and super low v-neck, what’s it to ya?
If someone wants to wear a sports bra, binder, and turtle neck, What’s. It. To. Ya?
IT IS THEIR/MY BODY. STOP TELLING THEM/ME WHAT TO DO WITH IT.
Live by your own standards of appropriateness, and leave other people to theirs!

soapboxpixie:

I keep seeing this picture. 

keep seeing it.

I don’t think my friends understand how much I let slide on Facebook.
But for some reason everyone has been sharing this picture, and it is driving me insane because STOP TELLING ME WHAT TO DO WITH MY BOOBS.

If someone wants to wear a mega push up bra with a see through shirt and super low v-neck, what’s it to ya?

If someone wants to wear a sports bra, binder, and turtle neck, What’s. It. To. Ya?

IT IS THEIR/MY BODY. STOP TELLING THEM/ME WHAT TO DO WITH IT.

Live by your own standards of appropriateness, and leave other people to theirs!