Not saying Quvenzhané’s name is an attempt, consciously or unconsciously, to step around and contain her blackness. Yes, sometimes black people have names that are difficult to pronounce. There aren’t many people of European descent named Shaniqua or Jamal. Names are as big a cultural marker as brown skin and kinky hair, and there’s long been backlash against both of those things (see: perms, skin bleaching creams, etc.). The insistence on not using Quvenzhané’s name is an extension of that “why aren’t you white?” backlash.

It is easier to be colorblind, to simply turn a blind eye to the differences that have torn this nation apart for centuries than it is to wade through those choppy waters. And Quvenzhané’s very existence is enough to make the societal majority uncomfortable. She is talented, successful, beautiful, happy, loved, and adored–all things that many people don’t figure that little black girls with “black” names could, or should, be. Their answer? Let’s make her more palatable. If she insists on not fitting the mold of the ghetto hoodrat associated with women with “urban” names, let’s take her own urban name away from her.

Refusing to learn how to pronounce Quvenzhané’s name says, pointedly, you are not worth the effort. The problem is not that she has an unpronounceable name, because she doesn’t. The problem is that white Hollywood, from Ryan Seacrest and his homies to the AP reporter who decided to call her “Annie” rather than her real name, doesn’t deem her as important as, say, Renee Zellwegger, or Zach Galifinakis, or Arnold Schwarzenegger, all of whom have names that are difficult to pronounce–but they manage. The message sent is this: you, young, black, female child, are not worth the time and energy it will take me to learn to spell and pronounce your name. You will be who and what I want you to be; you be be who and what makes me more comfortable. I will allow you to exist and acknowledge that existence, but only on my terms.

Brokey McPoverty, “What’s In A Name? Kind Of A Lot,” PostBourgie 2/26/13 (via racialicious)
When you say: Can't you take a joke?
I hear: I want you to submit to being bullied for my entertainment and convenience.

thosepeskydames:

Speak for yourself! Reclaiming words

Subi just manages to suppress a language and linguistics nerdgasm, and talks about the reclamation of slurs. (I promise this video was finished at decent o’clock, it just took forever to actually load!)

Interesting article on how to go about reclaiming a word: http://www.good.is/post/take-it-back-5-steps-to-reclaim-a-dirty-name/

This Dame:

http://uswhoresdontneedyou.tumblr.com
http://www.twitter.com/ThatPeskySubi (look guys I have a twitter now! Idk how to use it but yay!)

Reblogging for anyone who missed us posting this in the wee hours of last night.

Speak for yourself! Reclaiming words

Subi just manages to suppress a language and linguistics nerdgasm, and talks about the reclamation of slurs. (I promise this video was finished at decent o’clock, it just took forever to actually load!)

Interesting article on how to go about reclaiming a word: http://www.good.is/post/take-it-back-5-steps-to-reclaim-a-dirty-name/

This Dame:

http://uswhoresdontneedyou.tumblr.com
http://www.twitter.com/ThatPeskySubi (look guys I have a twitter now! Idk how to use it but yay!)

thosepeskydames:

WARNING: Here be swears (but sadly no dragons)

Video! With lots of swearing in it. (I’m not good at this timezone thing, sorry - Becca)

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As usual, reblogging at a time when people are awake, because I am bad with time.

WARNING: Here be swears (but sadly no dragons)

Video! With lots of swearing in it. (I’m not good at this timezone thing, sorry - Becca)

This Dame:

Tumblr: somekindofbecca.tumblr.com
Twitter: @beccarothwell

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Well look at that it’s TOPIC ANNOUNCEMENT time.

THIS WEEK: We’re reclaiming words for a variety of reasons. For example why feminism isn’t a dirty word and neither is vagina, and whether we can ever reclaim swear words and slurs like the ones in the picture above.

NEXT WEEK: We’ll be talking about Women in Sport, to coincide with the start of the 2012 Summer Olympics in London.

THE WEEK AFTER: We’re possibly talking about Women in Comedy to coincide with the start of the Edinburgh Fringe Festival, but that could change depending on you…

We’ve had quite a few topic suggestions in since our brush with TV stardom, so we thought we’d ask which topics you want us to cover next.

We’ve put up a Facebook question thingy where you can vote for your favourite topic or suggest new ones, but for those who don’t use Facebook feel free to answer in our ask box, or in reblogs etc.

And as ever if you want to do a guest video on any of these or any other topic then be sure to let us know! - Becca x

[First image shows two young white women holding a pair of protest signs in reference to the Michigan House of Representatives banning speakers who used the word “vagina” on the house floor. The first reads “I CUNT believe she said VAGINA!!” and the second reads “TWAT was she thinking?!”. If anyone can give me the original source I’d appreciate it, I found it here on Feministing.

Second image shows a black and white line up of six women of different shapes, sizes and weights wearing swimwear. Underneath each woman is their name, their Olympic sport, their height and their weight. Image originally from Sports Illustrated for Women, taken here from sumptuous.com - why don’t you look like a fitness model?

Third image shows British comedian Josie Long, a white woman with short brown hair, standing against a white wall smiling at the camera. It was taken by Idil Sukan on Flickr.]