Let’s all say it, loud and proud: GIRLS MASTURBATE TOO! AND WE LOVE IT!

http://www.gurl.com/2012/05/12/why-masturbate-five-reasons/
http://www.gurl.com/2012/11/17/how-to-masturbate/
http://www.luckymojo.com/faqs/altsex/penis.html
http://www.luckymojo.com/faqs/altsex/vulva.html

(As you can tell from watching this video is pretty cis-centric, so if anyone has some resources they would like to contribute which focus on trans* people I’d be really grateful - I am obviously not the right person to talk about this so I would really like to know if I should have done this differently/completely skipped over important stuff). 

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Today is hopefully going to be a double upload day for me, so here’s my video for last week’s theme!

Page 3 & Bad Feminism

So yes, I don’t like page 3, but do you know what else I don’t like? Campaigns to end page 3 that bully sex workers of any kind!

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Rape Culture and Sex Education **TRIGGER WARNING**

“I’m so sorry if I’m alienating some of you, your whole fucking culture alienates me”

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dailymurf:

caitygee:

mooncunt:

yup

this is a very important thing for everyone to know.

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

[Image reads “It’s not consent if you make me afraid to say no.”]

Feminism Within Heterosexual Relationships - [Guest Video]

Star returning guest vlogger Kinks has a bit of a ponder on how to stay true to your feminist beliefs whilst in a straight relationship.

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People often believe that transition is just a simple surgery and then poof, magically over. This really is the fault of the media, who are unable to truly represent it in the short span of time they have for their stories. It’s so common to make it appear easy and magical that there’s even a trope about it (and I just ruined the rest of someone’s day just by linking that). It’s such a pervasive myth that when Natalie Reed did her two-post essay on 13 myths and misconceptions about trans women, it came up as part of number three. This ties back to the whole belief of “The Op” being what it’s all about. So much so that there are many (even many trans people) who believe that transition ends after. 

We’ve got a guest video lined up for you later on today, but in the meantime we thought it’d be good to start doing a quick end of week round-up of each topic’s videos, so here we go…

This week we’ve been discussing prude shaming, starting out with Becca’s video focusing on our messed up ideas about virginity:

On Wednesday Subi talked about the different ways men and women are shamed for not having sex and why prude shaming is dangerous as hell:

Thursday saw Holly-Rae’s brilliant and personal video on prude shaming in poly communities and otherwise queer positive/activist spaces:

And finally Jenn rounded off the week with a great example of how being shamed as ‘frigid’ or a ‘prude’ directly contributes to rape culture:

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metapianycist:

[A complicated Venn diagram depicting multiple overlapping categories of features regarded as constituting “biological sex,” meant to illustrate that sex is not nearly as binary as many people like to think.]

Prude shaming and virginity

The right to say NO and not be judged for it is every bit as important and valid as the right to say YES.

Up a bit late despite being filmed last night (as evidenced by the fancy magazine make-up) because I fell asleep mid way through editing. True story.

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