New short film Centrefold tackles the ethics of labiaplasty

Female genital cosmetic surgery is on the rise. The number of labiaplasties performed in the UK has increased at least five-fold in the last decade. This week sees the release of  Centerfold, an animated documentary exploring issues surrounding real women’s choice to have the procedure.

When documentary filmmaker Ellie Land saw reports in the national press about an increasing trend in women undergoing labia surgery to neaten the appearance of their genitals, she set out to make a documentary exploring the subject.
Funded by the Wellcome Trust, and partnered with leading clinicians Sarah Creighton and Lih-Mei Liao from University College Hospitals London, Centrefold is an award-winning animated documentary presenting the personal accounts of three women who have had a labiaplasty.

Is labiaplasty anti- pornification or an empowering choice? Tell us what you think….
thecentrefoldproject.org

Well look at that it’s TOPIC ANNOUNCEMENT time.

THIS WEEK: We’re reclaiming words for a variety of reasons. For example why feminism isn’t a dirty word and neither is vagina, and whether we can ever reclaim swear words and slurs like the ones in the picture above.

NEXT WEEK: We’ll be talking about Women in Sport, to coincide with the start of the 2012 Summer Olympics in London.

THE WEEK AFTER: We’re possibly talking about Women in Comedy to coincide with the start of the Edinburgh Fringe Festival, but that could change depending on you…

We’ve had quite a few topic suggestions in since our brush with TV stardom, so we thought we’d ask which topics you want us to cover next.

We’ve put up a Facebook question thingy where you can vote for your favourite topic or suggest new ones, but for those who don’t use Facebook feel free to answer in our ask box, or in reblogs etc.

And as ever if you want to do a guest video on any of these or any other topic then be sure to let us know! - Becca x

[First image shows two young white women holding a pair of protest signs in reference to the Michigan House of Representatives banning speakers who used the word “vagina” on the house floor. The first reads “I CUNT believe she said VAGINA!!” and the second reads “TWAT was she thinking?!”. If anyone can give me the original source I’d appreciate it, I found it here on Feministing.

Second image shows a black and white line up of six women of different shapes, sizes and weights wearing swimwear. Underneath each woman is their name, their Olympic sport, their height and their weight. Image originally from Sports Illustrated for Women, taken here from sumptuous.com - why don’t you look like a fitness model?

Third image shows British comedian Josie Long, a white woman with short brown hair, standing against a white wall smiling at the camera. It was taken by Idil Sukan on Flickr.]

feministisnotadirtyword:

Yesterday, Michigan Representative Lisa Brown was banned from speaking after having the audacity to use the word “vagina” in a debate over an anti-abortion bill. Apparently, it’s not enough that Republicans have made it a political priority to roll back women’s reproductive rights—they also want to ensure that we remain silent as they do it.

Representative Mike Callton, for example, was absolutely scandalized by Brown’s comments: “What she said was offensive.… It was so offensive, I don’t even want to say it in front of women. I would not say that in mixed company.” (He does realize that this mixed company likely has vaginas, yes?)

I wished this latest GOP gaffe surprised me, but Republicans feeling squirmy about women’s “down-theres” while desperately trying to keep said “hoo-hoos” in check is pretty standard these days. We live in a country where it’s fine to legislate vaginas, but saying the actual word is forbidden.

Is it run of the mill misogynist disgust of female bodies? Puritanical pearl-clutching? Or simply sexist legislators who would rather not be reminded that the vaginas they’re attempting to control have pesky women with opinions attached to them?

No matter the reason, it speaks volumes about the way in which Republicans would like women to participate in policy conversations that effect their health and lives: they wish we would just shut up already. It would be so much easier if we just left the important decisions about women’s bodies up to men!

But yesterday’s “controversy” sparked more laughter than outrage. Soon the hashtag #VaginaMovieLines was trending on Twitter. (I couldn’t help but add a few to the mix: “It rubs the vagina on its skin or else it gets the hose again.” “Life is like a box of vaginas, you never know what you’re gonna get.”)

It’s understandable—after all, it’s difficult not to get carried away in the absurdity of grown men having fainting spells over the v-word. But as eye-roll inducing as this incident may be, it’s also deadly serious. The legislation at the center of this debate—which has passed in the Michigan House—is being called the most restrictive anti-choice bill in the country. It bans all abortions after twenty weeks—even in cases of rape, incest and threats to a woman’s health. Women who have fetuses that will not survive birth would be required to carry them to term anyway. The bill also mandates regulations designed to make it near impossible for rural women to obtain abortions or for clinics to operate.

Despite the way in which this bill will run amok in women’s lives, homes and health, we’re expected to stay quiet. And it wasn’t just Brown who was silenced—women who had to terminate wanted pregnancies after twenty weeks because of severe fetal abnormalities were blocked from testifying in Michigan. It’s not just happening in one state, either. After all, who could forget the all-male panel on birth control?

Republicans are systematically and deliberately trying to silence women’s voices and experiences. Not because they find “vagina” offensive—because they find the idea of women controlling their own bodies and lives offensive. Because they find us offensive. Republicans can shroud their misogyny in huffy rhetoric about “decorum,” but women know the truth. We just have to keep saying it.

messedupmasterpiece:

“One thing I am going to do differently as a parent is go easy on the “save sex for someone special” rhetoric with my kids – both with my daughter and my son. I noticed some unintended consequences happened among my friends and I when we were growing up with this. The “save yourself for when you really love someone” thing comes from a good place – being nice to yourself and only choosing people who are also nice to you – but it pairs up too easily with the general culture of slut-shaming that’s out there. The “precious vagina” can easily become the “shameful vagina”. “Saving yourself” can obviously also lend itself to an exploitative situation where male sexual pleasure is centred in sexual activity. Here’s how that works. You’re a girl and you’re having sexual encounters with boys (is it different for girls only hooking up with other girls?), and they’re very nice and you’re very attracted to them but they are not “the special one” so for as long as possible you end up choosing sexual activities that don’t involve your precious, precious virginity. The safest activities for this are those aimed solely at his sexual pleasure. With some friends I think this established a pattern that took them years to overcome in their sex lives.”

Andrea O’Reilly, “Why I will go easy on the “save yourself” rhetoric with my daughter” (via morecoffee)

Another issue with this whole “save yourself for when you really love someone” thing is that it makes sex obligatory and specifically about the relationship instead of about how the partners involved feel about it.  So, for instance, if a girl is meant to “only have sex with people she loves” then if she loves someone she could easily feel obligated to have sex with that person regardless of whether or not she wants to and the sex becomes, essentially, something people in relationships are supposed to do.  This means all asexual people are automatically erased and othered which is completely fucked up.  It also means that people who might have loving feelings for their partners and/or who want and enjoy the relationships they share with their partners but don’t want to have sex with them for some reason are shamed and vilified and can and do end up doing it anyway just to avoid that shaming and vilification (especially when it’s internalized).  This can end up with actual rapes where people simply allow the sex to happen even though they don’t actually consent to it because they’re afraid to say no or don’t feel like they’re allowed to say no since they love their partners.

(via rapeculturerealities)