When are you going to post more videos?
Anonymous

I don’t think any of us have plans to post more videos, sorry nonny. I strongly encourage you to create your own feminist content tho and am happy to help!  

- Jenn

Hi, I just wanted to ask if the Dames as a project still exists? I really liked the videos and I'm a bit confused why you were suddenly disappearing without a formal goodbye or something. (and anyway, if it's really over, than I still want to say thank you for doing it, I think it really was necessary :) )
Anonymous

Aw thank you! We’ve not called a proper definitive end to it hence no formal goodbye - but I think all our lives have changed a lot since we started and none of us have the time to vlog like we used to. Maybe we’ll make videos in the future, but I don’t think regular or consistent vlogging is on the cards for any of us these days. 

Jenn xx

I not very long ago found your blog and I completely love it. It stands for everything I do and I want to take a more pro active role in feminism and LGBT rights (being a bisexual woman!) What can I do to more involved?

Ah this is such a lovely message thank you! <3

Well it depends what you mean by involved. As far as I am concerned, you don’t have to go to groups or attend marches to positively make a difference in the world. Simply talking to your friends and family and people you know about shit stuff in the world and living your life in a way that is authentic to your beliefs does a lot to challenge and resist oppression.

But I assume this question is more about how to get involved with the more active modes of resistance and general feminist-queer community. In which case, looking out for local feminist/queer groups is invaluable! Googling feminist/queer groups in your area could be a big help - there might be book clubs or something or regular meet ups and social activities or organising activities. 

Looking into charities and volunteering opportunities (if that is accessible to you) might also be good for getting more involved. Once you enter those spaces and create more relationships with politically active people…it’s hard to not to get involved in everyone’s side projects and you get this regular stream of updates and work within those communities so there’s plenty of opportunities to be like ‘oh i’ll give you a hand’. 

And if there is a lack of any of those things around you, or none of them are quite right - make your own! I know Steph, who’s done some rad vlogs on here, set up a feminist book group in her area. You could try something similar, or a discussion group. 

Lastly online community is amazing and energising and also has the advantage that if you are getting burnt out and need a break from activism you can log off (harder to do in real life sometimes when all your friends are involved and your support network is rooted in the very thing you need a bit of a rest from). It also means that you can engage with EVERYONE IN THE WORLD and not just people who are geographically close to you. Feminist blogs have been so key in the growth of my feminism because it gave me the opportunity to listen to a lot of women’s voices and learn from them, their experience and their wisdom that just isn’t represented in more mainstream and popular discourse. 

I hope some of that helped!
Much love, 
Jenn xox

I am so happy that I found this blog, thank you so much for putting it together and maintaining it! Are all of you dames friends in person, or did you come together online to create this tumblr?

Aw thanks <3 not sure how good we’ve been at maintaining it (at least not me). We’re all friends in person, although we kind of got talking about it online before everyone had met everyone and then we got to be friends with Subi after she joined…but we all live p far away so don’t all see each other often. 

Jenn xx

Trigger warning for eating disorders/disordered eating, self harm and racism

This is a FANTASTIC article by one of our guest vloggers and all round wonderbabe, take care reading because parts can be triggering, but I found it really healing. 

I love you all! I recently found your videos, and I just want to say that you have improved my self confidence so much. I feel so much better about my body! Thank you! <3

Aww thank you for sending such a lovely message! I’m so glad our videos have had such a positive impact, this is exactly why we wanted to make them ^_^

Hooray for body positivity and self confidence, you’re awesome <3

- Becca x

Don’t ever compliment me by insulting other women. That’s not a compliment, it’s a competition none of us agreed to.
“You’re not like other girls.” Shut the fuck up. (via cutely-perverted)
i actually just watched the video "how to get a life" and you guys are so empowering. i was debating recently whether or not shave my legs (i havent shaved them completely in over three months) and after watching this its like. who cares? if i have to shave so should any guy wanting to be with me. why do i have to feel their hairy legs if theyd be repulsed by my own. LOVE YOU PESKY DAMES!!
Anonymous

I AM SENDING YOU CUDDLES FOR SUCH A LOVELY MESSAGE. I’m so glad you liked the show! And EXACTLY. Anyone who has a problem with your body is exactly the kind of dirtbag not worth your time. 

Jenn xxx

[TRIGGER WARNING - discussion of domestic violence, including footage of an unconscious woman being dragged and manhandled out of an elevator]

femfreq:

Olbermann talks about the ways in which the level of basic human respect for women in sports is consistently being eroded in the media.